Now let's discuss this. I'll be concentrating on the cheating part. This affects women mostly. I'm always baffled at the way our women,African women,accept the fact that all their men are cheats. This is so bad to the extent that even before a woman goes into marriage,she is already preparing her mind on how to condone her future husband's unfaithfulness. This makes me wonder if I'm the only one that sees this as being abnormal. We all are human beings created with same emotions. If it hurts a man when the woman he loves or is in a relationship with cheats on him,it surely hurts a woman when her man does same thing. Why then do the women have to be the ones to bear and accept the pains of betrayal? It always seems like a joke,as if I'm being unrealistic,to my female friends both single and married whenever I raised my concerns about this male infidelity. They'll always tell me to wake up and smell the coffee. They'll always tell me to accept the reality and forget about all this male faithfulness fantasy. The fact is that I could care less when a boyfriend is unfaithful because to me,he's not bound by the vows he hasn't taken yet on his future wedding day. He's still free to be with whoever he wants as well as the girl. But what I can't condone is an unfaithful married man. Painfully,it seems the married ones are as bad as the singles. And our women believe it's an inevitable occurrence and that any woman expecting a difference is merely fooling herself. This ideology is a terribly one and it's high time women stop accepting male infidelity as a natural phenomenon and work for what is best for their happiness. I've refused to accept that it's normal to be cheated on. Definitely it's not.
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